Friday, December 13, 2013

So Thankful...

I very rarely win contests or competitions, but one contest or competition that I won was the presidential election for my sophomore class this year. I ran for vice president with a close friend of mine, India Worthy. Surprisingly, India and I ended up in the bottom two. We were so excited and happy. At first, we ran for fun, but when we won the preliminary elections we realized that we really wanted to win. Not only did we want the positions for a nice addition to our resumes for college, but for the greater good of our class. For instance, I find that because we are in early college we miss out on some of our high school milestones. I have also noticed that our class is relatively close and enjoys being around one another. I also recalled some of the things my peers wished we had. As we ran, India and I kept these observations in mind. Even though we brought in treats, I believe that we won out of popularity. I am not insinuating that India and I are popular. I am just aware of the fact that the majority of our class knew us and knew that we both smart, kind, and caring. I have been told. I believe that as a result, our peers thought we were great candidates for the positions. I am so proud, excited, and ecstatic to have won, and I can not wait to begin making things happen for the new year. I am so thankful for all of my peers that voted for us. We will not disappoint. If any of my peers read this and there are any suggestions or requests for something REASONABLE, please let India and I know.

Friday, November 22, 2013

The Most Influential or Entertaining Part of the JC Presentation was....

To be honest, I am not able to pinpoint a particular influential or entertaining moment of the Johnny Cupcake presentation. This is a result of my overall satisfaction with the whole event.

To begin, Johnny's childhood was influential for many reasons. First, Johnny faced obstacles such as a learning disability, family issues, and friends involved with drugs. Despite these impediments, Johnny still prospered and did not allow them to affect him negatively. Instead, he took advantage.

Another aspect of the presentation that influenced me was Johnny's sayings and quotes. All of his quotes pertained to being happy in life. One thing in particular that Johnny stated was that time is very valuable. Johnny also indicated aspects in becoming successful through teamwork and pursuing what a person loves and what makes them happy. He demonstrates these habits in his everyday life as well as his past. From the time that he pursued music to owning his million dollar business, Johnny signifies consistency, teamwork, time management, risk taking, and more.

I also enjoyed how Johnny not only got his message across but entertained his audience. A concluding moment where I began to genuinely understand Johnny was when he explained that he could be paying much less and saving money on packaging. Johnnny refused to do so to ensure the positive experience he strives for, for his customers. This spoke to me because I always stress that its not about the money.

In all, the Johnny Cupcake presentation opened my eyes and inspired me in so many ways. From Johnny's creativity to his overall message, this presentation influences me to practice better time management, to go for what I enjoy and what makes me happy, and to take educated risks. Lastly, I recognized a reoccurring theme in my life in the Johnny Cupcake presentation: to collaborate with others and not try to do everything on my own. I will always remember the showcase as well as the positive character that is, Johnny Cupcake.

(this is really not my best piece of writing. I can not seem to word it right and indicate what I'm trying to say....)

Friday, November 15, 2013

Quitters Never Prosper

One habit that I dislike about myself is my habit of quitting. It is a very bad habit to posses and it holds me back from multiple opportunities. 
I am not sure why I have no problem partaking in this habit in the moment. Although, I usually regret the action later. I also tend to dwell on things for years, so this habit becomes very unhealthy, as well. 
It usually begins with me being interested in an activity or hobby. I then try it out or attend one meeting. When I am met with a challenge, I suddenly have the urge to discontinue. Next, I contemplate my options and their consequences, in my head. Often times I choose to quit over my other options, resulting in this reoccurring process. 
For years, until I try again or conquer that challenge, I will have a feeling of regret and remorse that stresses and strains me. My family then gives me a lecture and pep talk. This usually motivates me to try again but I usually end up doing something completely different, continuing this habit. 
I believe that there is a deeper reasoning for this horrible habit. Maybe I lack the confidence or the motivation. I am not sure. Although, I am sure about a phrase I always hear as a result of this unfortunate
habit-quitters never prosper. 

Friday, November 8, 2013

Music=Life

Music is an important aspect of my life for several reasons. For example, music not only relaxes me, but it helps me concentrate, humbles me, and aids in my relation to others. In addition, music also provides an outlet for myself and my peers to express ourselves and distribute our thoughts, views, opinions, and experiences. Overall, music unites individuals in a positive way.

To begin, when I am stressed out from school, friendships, and life in general, I can listen to music to improve my mood. In correspondence, music helps me relax and concentrate when completing tasks such as school assignments and chores. It brings me to a very positive and happy place.

Through music, individuals can share their experiences and thoughts. Listening to different songs is a humbling experience for me. In addition to my previously stated reasons, music allows me to step into someone else's shoes and know how they felt in that situation. It queues memories as well.

Also, as a form of entertainment, music brings people together whether it is through attending a concert, sharing a favorite artist, dance, song, instruments, and more. As a result, music has aided me in various aspects of life from making friends to keeping my sanity. Therefore, music is my life.

Thursday, October 24, 2013

#younggetmoney

Although I am a Five Star Stunna, if money was no object, many aspects of my life would be different. My future plans, goals, dreams, and my present life would differ the most. For example, I would want to apply a large majority of my interests to my occupation if money was no object. The platform that would allow me do so is a website known as Youtube. 

First, I would invest my money that I earn into quality cameras, lenses, lighting, and sound equipment. This would  allow me to create quality Youtube videos in which I could share my interests, talents, thoughts, and my overall life. I would strive to teach, inform, and most importantly: entertain. Being apart of the Youtube community would open opportunities for me to travel, meet and interact with new people, act, and express myself. 

Most likely, I would make vlog style videos allowing me to have creative freedom. Eventually, I hope to become an inspiration and role model to many young individuals in society just as the current Youtubers do for me. I could use this platform for a positive outcome as well, such as donating to charity and other worthy causes. Ultimately, my goal would be to put all of my money and time into making someone's day better when they watch a video of mine. 

Thursday, October 3, 2013

The Hobby of A Five Star Stunna


   I have had multiple hobbies such as making youtube videos, collecting rocks, collecting nail polish, singing, and dance. Although, I have kept up with very few of these hobbies as a result of my habit of quitting activities. However, one hobby that I have always upheld is "Simming".

   "Simming" is a term used to describe the play of Sims, which is a PC video game. The video game is updated every few years, and it allows the player to make multiple characters and conduct their lives.

   I began this hobby around the age of five. I collected each expansion and stuff pack for the orginal "The Sims" game. Throughout the years, I have begun to purchase almost every expansion and stuff pack, excluding the few that I did not wish to add to my game. Upkeeping this hobby is very pricey. With each base game starting at $50, I can not imagine how much I have spent purchasing Sims merchandise.

   As of now, I barely have time to play like I used to. During the summers and weekends, I play the Sims for hours on end. Recently, I have been playing The Sims 3. The Sims 3 is the latest Sims base game released by Electronic Arts and Maxis, the creators of the entire Sims franchise. Because I have not had the time to play the video game, I am behind on purchasing the latest expansion and stuff packs. However, there is only one other expansion pack that I wish to purchase for this base game: The Sims 3 Seasons.

  Even though I have most likely spend hundreds of dollars purchasing Sims games, I do not regret the hobby. I have fun playing and turning friends and family into "Simmers", as well. I will definitely be purchasing the newest Sims, "The Sims 4", regardless of its price, on the day it release early next year. I am proud to say that this is the one of the hobbies that I have continued.

Below is the launch trailer for The Sims 4, a Sims game anticipated for early next year. It is still in the process of being created.

Friday, September 27, 2013

Meeting The Original Five Star Stunnas

   I am a firm believer of the idea that everything happens for a reason. As a result, I do not have an urge to change anything that has previously occurred in my life. Although, if I had to, I would change the day I met Mindless Behavior. Even though I enjoyed that day, with better preparation I would have enjoyed the experience more.

   Mindless Behavior is a group of four teenage boys that produce pop and R&B music. I was-and still am- crazy about them. When I found out they were having a meet and greet in Cleveland, I quickly purchased my admission, days before the event. 

  On the day of the meet and greet, I did not attend school in order to have my hair freshly done. In addition to my appearance, I had on a very cute but not very warm outfit. I refused to wear my winter coat, and I instead wore a fall jacket. This was only the beginning of my regrets. We ended up waiting outside in the winter cold for hours. It was so cold that my fingers were numb when I finally got inside. As a result, the first thing I would change would be my attire if I could go back to that day.

   In addition to my unfortunate preparation, I did not plan what I was going to say to each member. I ended up forgetting to wish two of the members who had recent birthdays, a happy birthday. I also forgot to introduce myself to them. All I could muster to say was "I love you", most likely with a dazed expression on my face. I am sure that I looked like a definite fangirl. To finish it off, when I exited the building, I screamed of excitement and happiness. I am positive that Mindless Behavior heard it. Going back to that day, I would also make sure to sound like the educated, logical human being I am. I would also introduce myself so that the member of Mindless Behavior that remembers most fans, would remember me the next time he saw me.

   If I could make the changes I previously mentioned, I would have a greater benefit from that experience. Although, reminiscing to that day, my actions are now comical but still a little embarrassing. Regardless of my unfortunate experience, I enjoyed myself in that moment, which was all that mattered. Now that I think about it, I am glad that they did not remember me the next time I saw them.
A picture my chauffeur snuck...(I am not in this picture)

Me after the event...LITERALLY

Thursday, September 19, 2013

A Five Star Stunna Can Not Simply Value One Person

I value almost everyone I encounter in life, for many different reasons. Other than my mother, one person I greatly value would be my older sister, Mia. She has taught me so much, both intentionally and unintentionally.

To begin, Mia is a loving, hilarious, hard working, intelligent, and annoying person. As we were growing up, I looked up to her tremendously. She was always gorgeous, smart, brave, and loved by those who genuinely knew her. She is also athletic, daring, social, ambitious, caring, and exceeds academically. Everyone that has been graced by Mia's presence knows she has absolutely no problem confronting others. As a result, I still look up to her today.

In addition to what was previously stated, Mia has shown how confident, determined, and brave she is by graduating from high school, with no interruption, regardless of her unplanned pregnancy at the age of 17. She did not let the birth of my beautiful niece effect her negatively. Instead, she has become a loving, fun, and protective mother. Recently, Mia has graduated from Bowling Green State University with her Bachelor's degree at the age of 21, making her one of the first to do so in our family. She has now been accepted into a program that will lead her to achieving her goal of becoming a midwife.

Throughout the years, Mia has been one of the best older siblings anyone could ask for. I am so privileged to have her as not only my older sister, but my confidant, walking diary, personal tutor, protector, entertainer, chauffeur, and most importantly - my best friend. I can only hope that I can be as great of an older sister and role model for our younger sisters.

Friday, September 13, 2013

The Summa of a Five Star Stunna

This summer, I did not do much. My days consisted of playing on my phone, gaming, watching movies and shows on Netflix, sleeping, snacking, beating my family in UNO, and the occasional hangout with friends. Every Tuesday and Thursday, I had research lab. My summer was very uneventful, yet my family made it fun for me. They always do!

Nearly every summer, three of my male cousins that I am closest with, stay with us until school begins again. My siblings, my cousins, and  I are all relatively close in age. As a result, we get a long really well. Together, we have a lot of fun whether it is playing sports, going to water parks, playing pranks, randomly going to fast food restaurants at 3 in the morning, sharing stories, or just simply being who we are. They are like the brothers I have always I never had, yet I have always longed for.

Because of all of the fun that we had, the day my cousins were leaving was very saddening. I could definitely tell how upset everyone was. As an addition to the mood, a close family friend had passed away amen, and we would have to attend their burial in the same day.

The morning of their departure, we left on time for once. We stopped at a local gas station for snacks, and we were on our way. The ride to our destination was nearly silent. We arrived downtown Cleveland, and of course, we could not find the Megabus station. After we found the station, we could not find parking. Finally, we found a place to park, with time to spare. Waiting for the Megabus to arrive, we took a million "selfies" that did not turn out that great. People stared at us, bus this did not bother us the slightest bit because we pride ourselves in not caring what others think. Unfortunately, the bus then arrived. We all left one another with a few choice words, hugs, and kisses--on the verge of tears. My cousins then boarded the bus, setting in the fact that we would not see each other in months. In no time, my older sister, my mom, and I guested into tears. (We are all super sensitive.) As the bus pulled off, we each gestured an inside joke to my cousins. We then went on our way to the burial that I previously mentioned. Overall, the day was very emotional.

Although my cousins and I were together to the point where they began to annoy me greatly, I miss me dearly, to this day. Regardless of all of the repetitive pranks that were played on me, I cannot wait until the summer simply because I know "the crew" will soon be reunited.

Friday, September 6, 2013

My name is Nya.

My name is Nya.
It kills me.
I hate it!
People often misspell it.
I wish it was simple.
I want a new, normal name.
Maybe then, I could find a cup with my name on it.
And I would not have to pay extra for personalized items.
I am also saddened that I might not ever find another Nya;
And if I did, it would not be spelled the same.
I want a nickname that is a shortened version of my name;
But name is already short.
Three Letters;
Two syllables:
Nya.
What would they call me?
Na?
Ny?
Ya?

My name is Nya.
It is as delightful as a new box of 'Wheat Thins'.
I Love It!
People often misspell it.
I no longer wish it was simple,
Nor do I want a new, "normal" name.
And do I really need that cup?
What is a few extra dollars for being special?
I now value the fact that I have not yet encountered another Nya.
Although, I am still pretty sure that it would not be spelled the same.
I now have a nickname,
Nine letters;
Three syllables:
Nyra Banks!
But I am finally content with just being referred to as...
NYA!

Monday, September 2, 2013

My #1 Rule

Embracing the fact that no one in the world is exactly the same is very important to me. As a result, my number one rule in life is to be myself, regardless of what others think. Applying this rule to a vast majority of my life, I have learned to influence myself and others around me to value being themselves.
Sometimes, being myself is a challenge but I know that it is easier to be myself than to pretend to be someone that I am not. At times, people might feel the need to change themselves in order to satisfy others as a way to fit in or avoid bullying and negative judgement. Although, not every person encountered in life will like the other individual for who they are but some will. For example, I, personally, have encountered many people who do not like me simply because of the way I talk. People often tell me that I do not speak as urban as expected. I even recall a time where I would speak more urban around certain individuals. Doing so, I eventually came to the realization that I was not being myself when I spoke that way. With this in mind, I chose to discontinue that action and found friends that liked me, regardless of my speech. That was when this rule became very valuable to me.
I now influence others around me to maintain their confidence and pride in themselves when it comes to the way they dress, speak, think, and more. Because of this, I greatly embrace diversity, as well as, a person genuinely being themselves.